Most people I see walking around have become anesthetized by Society in some way shape or form.
They walk around like zombies, just going through the motions and 5 years, 10 years later they look back and they’re still in the same spot and they wonder why.
Some years ago I decided that was not going to be me. I decided that I had to have a way out. Even if I had to pick myself up by the bootstraps, I was going to do what I had to do.
I had hit rock bottom.
I was impotent.
My testosterone was so low even with the max dosage of the supplement I was still low.
I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease.
My body was racked with pain.
My gut was racked with pressure and gas and it felt like I had sunburn all throughout my small intestine.
But this is really about you. Bear with me.
I work off of law; I work off of principal.
There are universal laws that exist and we can accept that or not. You can deny gravity but it will still apply to you.
Our universe is made up of energy, and energy is pliant. Ergo it is subject to our control and direction within the confines of our own personal sphere of influence. It is indeed through this understanding that we may open up pathways for ourselves in order to create a future for ourselves that is what we want, what we control, what we dictate.
We speak our world into existence, the trick is that most people do it the wrong way. They poor mouth. They say I can’t. They say there’s none for me. And they are right!
The funny thing is, and really it’s not that funny, the only difference between them and the ones who are a success is simply rooted in their mindset. The successful don’t say I can’t, they say I can.
Oh, they might say I need help, and then they go out and seek it! They put action behind their words instead of sitting back, sucking their thumb, kicking their desk and saying, “Woe is me. Poor me. The universe is unfair and did not give me the advantages as others.”
The thing is we all have our own unique set of tools our own unique set of advantages in our own unique ways that put us in a position to move ahead. The trick is in tapping into that, but in order to do that you must be aware of it and seek it.
You cannot pursue what you cannot see.
If all you do is run around and say that it won’t work, it can’t happen for you and that you don’t have enough, that will be true for you.
The people that run around and say that there is abundance everywhere, there’s plenty, and I’m simply going to seek my own bounty out of the fruitfulness of the universe, then that will be true for them as well.
A simple gut check for you might be to see how often during the day you complain. People who complain are seen as weak and often dying, and the law the jungle states that the jungle will cleanse itself of such folks.
The weak and the dying are removed without prejudice.
So the move then, my friend, is to simply employ a little Jedi mind trick and remove one of the implanted switches that you’ve allowed others to give you, and instead implant a switch of your own.
So whenever you feel like saying I can’t, realize it’s an opportunity to learn and grow and look for the thing that you need in order to accomplish your objective. That will help guide you and give you some direction.
If you learn to use your mind and your reactions to things as a feedback mechanism, you will continue to teach yourself where you need to learn, improve, and grow.
Anger is always a choice.
And so when you get angry, learn what triggered you and why. It’s always a place where you can grow and learn more about yourself and others.
When you lack motivation, you can also sit back and ask your the self the question, why was I unable to jump? Why was I unable to take that leap? What fear prevented me from taking that first step? What lie am I telling myself about this situation to sabotage myself?
Or you may also discover that you set back and allowed yourself to become too comfortable and to camp out in hope. Hope is a good thing and we need it. But it also halts our present energy if we allow it to. It is the obverse of fear.
You will do more to avoid pain than to gain pleasure.
Fear is a form of mental pain within.
Action leads to courage.
So if you experience fear, it is usually because you are sitting still and or are stagnant, and are confused. Either lost at sea or locked in the ice.
The remedy for that is to take action.
Jump.
You don’t have to get it right, you just have to get it going.
And once you ring that Bell you will hear what it sounds like.
And then you will have a reference to go by.
Something to judge.
It will give you a reference to see if your temperature is hot or cold. And then you can make adjustments accordingly.
So what does this have to do with reciprocity?
One of the quickest and easiest ways to pick yourself up by the bootstraps is to go find somebody to help. Because if you are down and out, then you don’t realize that there are others who are worse off than you.
There’s always somebody who’s worse off than you. And when you go help them, that becomes an exercise of the spirit and it will uplift you. And it will help you.
It’s an integral part of the law of attraction too. When you put good energy out into the universe it responds with good energy.
When you put negative energy out into the universe it responds with negative energy.
So if you’re focus is twofold, to be the best you that you can be, and run around doing the best you can to put good energy out into the universe, the universe will recognize this. It will respond by sending good energy back to you.
It won’t be in the same form, the same way, from the same direction, and from the same people. It will be absolutely equal and greater in value.
So in the same way that you tear off a piece of love, and love comes back to you, when you push good energy out into the universe it creates a vacuum inside of you and it will pull positive energy back to you.
Same thing with negative energy. It is qualitative.
The more good you put out there, the more good returns to you.
Two things to keep in mind. Number one. Don’t judge by others. You don’t know their past or their history nor their future.
Number two. Quit expecting you out of other people. They aren’t you.
Number Three. Don’t allow others to expect themselves out of you.
Do you.
Do bird.
Simplify your life, expect the blessings of favor, and learn how to create reciprocity cycles that develop the Law of Attraction within you.
Polish your diamond. Rinse off the mud, then start chopping off the things that don’t belong, thst are preventing your facets from shining.
Before long you’ll be radiant and attracting everybody to your brilliance.
This is done by Leading first with love.
Love yourself and become the best version of yourself then you can go out and do the same to others and help them do likewise.
That is the cycle.
